Cold and dreary

It's cold and dreary today. My sister just asked me an interesting question about marriage and if I've ever thought "what did I get myself in to" I have no idea if she'll read this or not but yes, i've thought along those lines before but they were times when I was angry and didn't want to listen to the wisdom Brandon was providing. (i was being stubborn) I know that love doesn't cure all things. I know that love doesn't make whatever it was he said to me that I took the wrong way and hurt my feelings okay. But I do know, that because I know that I'm loved and cherished by him, it really helps me get over it.

I don't have to worry about waking up and wondering how Brandon will act today. He's a constant, loving, compassionate, understanding, and incredibly talented man that I love to love! So no, love isn't the answer but in my opinion, love is one of the driving forces of marriage. It's hard to want to do the "gross" stuff for someone when you don't love them. And lets be honest, men are gross some times. Please, just pee IN the toilet only. If your chicken breast fell on the floor, don't eat it. I will make you a new one!! And the list goes on and on. It would be hard to do his dirty, stinky laundry if I didn't love him. I'm not saying it's my favorite thing to do, but I do it because I love him and those are things he needs done.